According to a great poet love is a sweet pain that increases as you try to escape it. The more you try to escape the more it chases you. It is the boon that every young person and young at heart feel and experience love some time or the other in his or her lives.
Every infatuation and crush cannot be love as they fade away with the lapse of time. But as long as they are there they seem to be very real, genuine and all that matters to us. But once they are over what remains is only a thin scar reminding us of its existence. But, we put it off into the back corridors of our brain once we find someone again who seem very near to our heart. The moment you see someone and your heart skips a beat and you long to see that person again and again, and you feel that, that person seems to be very familiar to your heart since ages, mind you that is your love, learn that he or she is your love.
Love was once called blind but it no longer seems to be. People are adopting various ways to see whether the partner fits his/her attitudes, views and lifestyle. Yes we are talking about the concept of Internet love. People search for a person who matches his/her profile and preferences, then try to contact him/her, then chat and only after confirming about many factors propose and date each other.
Earlier love was said to blossom at first sight and would be slowly nurtured with trust, understanding and mutual care before the parties concerned decide to get into wedlock, If the trend today is to be watched, it seems that there would be less chance of failures in love affairs and there would be less amount of parental disapproval, as the girl and boy involved know what they are seeking in their prospective bride or groom.
Though finding a partner through Internet may be easy and though to find with the preferred qualities it still remains a fact that the first personal meeting will involve a lot of anxiety and all the feelings of 'butterflies in the stomach'. Even after all the matched qualities when you meet someone personally the true feeling of love comes to the fore. An amount of body chemistry works on meeting someone you are seeing for the first time, you till now only know as an online friend.
It is a proven fact that sometimes the presence of a person you very well know gets to be repulsive and someone whom you have never met before becomes nearer to your heart. This is how love blossoms. You never know whom you might suddenly like and start nurturing a feeling of love for. When you start feeling that every moment of your life you want to spend with that person, you want to give every thing you can call yours to that person and that person alone, whose absence makes you feel a void in your heart and body then understand that that is your true love.
Though you tend to know a lot about each other while in the period of chatting, when you meet personally and start dating with an assurance that you belong to each other, then you really can enjoy love and togetherness.
When you are sure of the other person's intentions, you can propose dating. Dating can be proposed online or offline when you meet personally, but remember the proposal should always come from the man, women are considered shy and demure so women keep it up that way.