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Mistakes Men Do
Mistakes are a common phenomenon irrespective of the gender. But the mistakes a man commits are more impulsive, thoughtless and unmindful of the consequences. This is true not only in the general daily routine but also in romantic relationships. Men generally take utmost care and caution with regards to their work environment and professional dealings, but when it comes to the matters of the heart they tend to take things for granted and in this over confidant out look they tend to make minor slips which may tend to put the relationship in jeopardy. A little bit of caution and care goes a long way to nurture and strengthen the relationship. Given below are some of the mistakes that generally bog down men and some tips to overcome them.
- Men tend to rush things. That is they try to get too close to the partner in the first meeting and this puts a woman on her guard. She may even try to keep a safe distance.
- Tip: Try to take it easy do not rush things, give her, her time let her decide and help her gain the necessary confidence and a feeling of security. Eventually she is going to come out in all her sincerity to confide in you totally.
- Men tend to be dominating and expect instant recognition, acceptance and importance, whether others accept or not, they try to push things, their own way unmindful of the sensitiveness of the situation or the thought that their acts are going to produce results only in the negative manner.
- Tip: Don not over do and try to listen carefully what the others are saying, before jumping headlong. Avoid, controversial subjects/topics, be positive and try to make a generalized approach, be it in a group or with the partner.
- Men try to be aggressive and try to impress the others/partner with some kind of heroics, which they feel that the partners of the opposite sex fall head over heels. Well, Well, this kind of perception that is universal amongst men is a misnomer. Rather this type of approach may soon end up in a fiasco.
- Tip: Be cool and maintain dignity and at the same time be attentive to the taste of the partner, and do follow sincerely the way a gentle approach would please and impress the partner. Remember that slow and steady wins the race.
- Men try to pretend that they are very bold and so faithful and honest, that they tend to openly admit to the partner, in the very first phase, all the draw backs about them, and expect that their sincere admissions are going to please the partner and that by this way they can win their confidence. This type of approach is absolutely wrong.
- Tip: Try to learn from the 'crab'. Have you ever seen one on the sea- shore? It just goes in all directions, but only a little way, but finally chooses its right direction and prey and hangs onto it, come what, may. You also tell a little about yourself and probe a little about the partner, and proceed in a cautious way in a phase wise manner and reciprocate the information, before finally coming to know your ground and then go for the big one.
- It is a big mistake with the men that they try to command all the attention and total loyalty and also complete subservience right from day one but this cannot be expected in reality.
- Tip: This is only a testing time, accept her as she comes to you not as something that is getting into your control or your guard, but someone who is coming to you as a person to share your love, life, sorrows and happiness.
- Men try to take and make decisions for the women in their life right from the day one, which only makes the woman feel suffocated and throttled.
- Tip: Try to respect her space as much as you want her to respect yours.