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Flirting Tips
- Flirting is fun if it stays within the limits but stretching it too far will only put all other relationships at risk. This only keeps your ego satisfied to a certain extent and gives a boost to your sexual ego. Here are some tips to keep it safe and with in the accepted limits.
- Keep your flirting harmless and with out a commitment. There is neither any deep commitment nor physical attachment involved. This is sort of friendly playful prank with sexual under current. The jokes and the conversations may be involving sexual overtures, but an explicit relationship does not exist.
- Let not a harmless flirting lead to a physical relationship that could neither be accepted nor rejected.
- See to it that your flirting does not hurt the feelings of the other person or is causing any mental agony to them. You can indulge in flirting only if the other person too enjoys your overtures and passes. As long as it does not directly reflect on some one's character it may be acceptable to some people. In case it goes beyond the harmless
- Hurting category then it needs to be stopped.
- Let flirting remain verbal. No non-verbal flirting should be indulged in. This keeps flirting in acceptable limits.
- Care should be taken to see that flirting does not humiliate the self-respect of the other person. A similarity can be brought about between ragging and flirting. As long as both the parties involved are enjoying it, it stands good but when it is done at the cost of somebody's feelings and sentiments then it should be avoided. Ragging may be one-to-one or between many and one at a time or between many and two or three members or more but flirting usually involves only two people.
- Flirting should be avoided at all costs in public places and of course on the other extreme it also must be avoided in isolated and sparsely populated places.
- Safe flirting gels well with the Internet. Online flirting is increasingly becoming the in-thing today. The commitment level is zero and the anonymity can be easily maintained. You cannot expect any serious relationship developing out of such prank. If you desire to get this relationship on to a firmer ground it is better to verify the credentials of the other person thoroughly, for the other person can be any one from a bored person trying to get some fun or just a prankster looking out for some fun or just out of curiosity.
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